So? "Heteronormativity" is probably a decade older and I don't like that either. "Transphobia" is newer and I think it's bullshit as well.
As for the rest, I scarcely know where to begin. I've personally experienced some of what you write about since I never went along with the idea that being gay was some sort of binding contract to never experience heterosexual attraction ever again, much less, heaven forfend, have sex with a woman. I never agreed to call myself a Kinsey Six and got all kinds of static about it including tons of—the envelope, please!—"internalized homophobia."
I don't like the gay enclave culture, the quicker it goes away the happier I'll be but I had my fill of it long before I aged out of it.
As for reading your sources, well, I hate to be the bearer of such distressing news but reading your litany of grievances does not obligate me to read all of your references as well. I'm sort of one of the people you're talking about but I have never felt a moment of handkerchief-wringing over those pathetic gay men so invested in their sexual identity that they found bisexuals to be threatening. Fuck them.
And by the way, no, I am not going to provide "proof" about my claim that most allegedly bisexual men are almost exclusively gay. If you had any kind of exposure to scientific method you would never use the word proof, you would say "evidence."
Which you could find as easily as I could. Use a search engine. Just a suggestion.