I don’t think this is a valid formulation. Of course there’s some truth to it but I think it’s more tangential than central.
Trump’s outlook is much more immature and egocentric than masculine. He is a physical and emotional weakling and must demand respect he is not capable of earning.
It’s becoming almost reflexive to view our national decay in terms of white male privilege; well, there were some women in the Capitol too and a lot of conservative women are leading the charge in putting themselves back in kitchens and maternity wards.