“Biphobia” can we please stop this? We don’t need more invented words.

I’m gay, I’ve had sex with women. That doesn’t make me bisexual. There are actually very few 50~50 bisexual men; they exist but in real life they are overwhelmingly more like 95~5, leaning very much one way and much less the other, and almost all of them lean gay. I won’t speak for bisexual women.

Gay men tend to regard bisexual men as gays who haven’t finished coming out, but then the gay enclave culture has always been rigid in its orthodoxy. At least that’s how it was back when I was affiliated with it, which I haven’t been since the mid 90s.

There sure are a lot of grievances on medium.